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Table of Contents
1
Going It Alone in Court 1
e Scope of is Book 2
Can You Really Represent Yourself? 5
Coping With Being a 
Stranger in a Strange Land 6
Finding a Legal Coach 7
Using is Book 10
Trying to Settle Your Case 12
Alternatives to Trial 13
2
e Courthouse and the Courtroom 17
An Overview of Different Courts 19
A Typical Courthouse 20
e Courtroom Players 23
e Courtroom and Its Physical Layout 29
Courtroom Rules, Customs, and Etiquette 32
3
Starting Your Case 37
Do You Have a Good Case? 39
Is Your Lawsuit Timely? 42
Which Court Has the Power to Hear Your Case? 46
Beginning a Lawsuit 55
4
Pretrial Procedures 73
Know and Follow Pretrial Deadlines 74
Pretrial Conferences 75
Court-Ordered Mediation and Arbitration 75
Initial Pretrial Procedures: Setting Ground Rules 76
Intermediate Pretrial Procedures: Discovery and Motions 80
Final Pretrial Procedures: Trial Preparation 84
5
Investigating Your Case 93
Informal Investigation 94
Formal Discovery 100
Depositions 104
Written Interrogatories 120
Requests for Production of Documents and Subpoenas 125
Requests for Admissions 129
6
Settlement 133
Court-Ordered Mediation 136
Court-Ordered Arbitration 140
Offers of Judgment 142
Pretrial Settlement Conferences 142
Postsettlement Documents 145
7
Pretrial Motions 147
Overview of Pretrial Motion Practice 148
Is a Motion Necessary? 152
What Goes Into a Motion? 152
Scheduling a Court Hearing on a Pretrial Motion 154
Serving and Filing Your Documents 154
Court Hearings on Motions 155
Common Pretrial Motions 157
8
Proving Your Case at Trial: 
e Plaintiff’s Perspective
 183
e Elements of a Legal Claim 184
Finding the Elements of Your Claim 186
Proving Each Element 186
Your Burden of Proof 188
Identifying Facts to Prove the Elements of Your Claim 190
Looking Ahead to Trial: Organizing Your Evidence 195
Learning About Your Adversary’s Case 198
9
Proving Your Case at Trial: 
e Defendant’s Perspective
 199
Identifying the Elements of the Plaintiff’s Legal Claim 201
Identifying the Plaintiff’s Facts 201
Defeating Any One Element of a Claim 203
Disproving the Plaintiff’s Facts by Impeaching Witnesses 204
Proving Your Version of Events 205
Putting Defense Strategies Together 206
10
Selecting the Decision Maker 211
Are You Eligible for a Jury Trial? 212
Are You Better Off With a Judge or a Jury? 212
Your Opponent’s Right to a Jury Trial 213
Disqualifying a Judge 213
Making a Timely Request for a Jury Trial 215
e Jury Selection Process 216
Your Right to Challenge Jurors 218
What Jurors Should You Challenge? 222
What Should You Ask Prospective Jurors? 223
Alternate Jurors 226
11
Opening Statement 229
Should You Make an Opening Statement? 230
When to Make Your Opening Statement 231
Putting Together Your Opening Statement 232
What Not to Say During Your Opening Statement 234
Rehearsing and Presenting Your Opening Statement 238
Sample Opening Statement and Outline 239
12
Direct Examination 243
Direct Examination as Storytelling 244
Overview of Direct Examination Procedures 244
Preparing for Direct Examination 246
Presenting Your Own Testimony on Direct Examination 250
Questioning Witnesses 251
Hostile Witnesses 262
e Judge’s Role 264
Sample Direct Examination 265
13
Cross-Examination 269
Overview of Cross-Examination 270
Should You Cross-Examine? 272
Asking Questions on Cross-Examination 273
Eliciting Helpful Evidence 275
Impeaching AdverseWitnesses 278
Basing Questions on Evidence You Can Offer 286
What to Do If Your Witness IsImpeached 286
Preparing for Cross-Examination 287
14
Closing Argument 289
When to Deliver Your Closing Argument 290
Preparing and Rehearsing Your Closing Argument 290
Putting Together a Closing Argument 291
What Not to Say During Your Closing Argument 301
Rebuttal Argument 302
Objections During Closing 302
Sample Closing Argument and Outline 303
15
Exhibits 309
Overview of Admitting Exhibits Into Evidence 310
Step 1: Mark Your Exhibits and Show em to Your Adversary 311
Step 2: Identify (Authenticate) Your Exhibits 313
Step 3: Lay a Foundation 313
Letting Jurors See Your Exhibits 326
When Exhibits Are Required: e Best Evidence Rule 327
Objecting to Your Adversary’s Exhibits 327
Organizing Exhibits for Trial 330
16
Basic Rules of Evidence 331
Relevance 332
Excluding Relevant but Unfairly Prejudicial Evidence 334
e Rule Against Opinions 335
Rules Excluding Evidence Based on Social Policies 338
Hearsay 341
17
Making and Responding to Objections 351
Overview of Objections 352
Objections Made Before Trial: Motions in Limine 353
Making Objections During Trial 354
Responding to Your Adversary’s Objections 359
Checklist of Common Objections 363
18
Organizing a Trial Notebook 369
Setting Up Your Notebook 370
Index Tab 1: Legal Pleadings 370
Index Tab 2: Discovery Materials 371
Index Tab 3: Legal Claim Outline 372
Index Tab 4: Opening Statement Outline 372
Index Tab 5: Direct Examination Outlines 372
Index Tab 6: Cross-Examination Outlines 373
Index Tab 7: ClosingArgument Outline 374
Index Tab 8: JuryTrialDocuments 374
Index Tab 9: MiscellaneousDocuments 375
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Expert Witnesses 377
Who Are Expert Witnesses? 378
Do You Need an Expert Witness? 378
Special Rules for ExpertWitnesses 380
Finding and Hiring an ExpertWitness 383
Questioning Your Expert Witness at Trial 387
Cross-Examining Your Opponent’s Expert Witness 394
20
When Your Trial Ends: Judgments and Appeals 397
How Final Decisions Are Made at the End of Trial 399
Requesting a New Trial or Change in the Verdict 401
Appeals 403
Collecting and Paying Judgments 407
21
Representing Yourself in Family Court 417
Formulate a Divorce Game Plan 420
Understanding the Basics of Family Law 433
Filing for Divorce 440
How Uncontested Divorces Work 443
How Contested Divorces Work 447
Modification of Support, Custody, and Visitation 453
22
Representing Yourself in Bankruptcy Court 463
e Chapter 7 Bankruptcy Process 464
Meeting of Creditors (341(a) Hearing) 467
Relief From Stay Hearing 468
Objection to Exemption Hearing 470
Discharge of Debt Hearing 472
Reaffirmation of Debt Hearing 473
Getting Help Beyond is Book 474
23
Help Beyond the Book: 
People, Places, and Publications
 477
What You May Want to Research 478
Sources of Information 481
Getting Help From a Lawyer 493
G
Glossary 501
Index 517
Going It Alone in Court
C H A P T E R
1
e Scope of is Book 2
Can You Really Represent Yourself? 5
Coping With Being a 
Stranger in a Strange Land 6
Finding a Legal Coach 7
Using is Book 10
If Time Permits, Read rough the Entire Book 10
Use is Book in Conjunction With Local Court Rules 10
Make a Trial Notebook 12
Trying to Settle Your Case 12
Alternatives to Trial 13
Court Hearings 13
Arbitration 13
Mediation 14
Negotiation 14
Administrative Agency Hearings 15
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T
his book provides the information 
you need to prepare for trial and 
represent yourself in court.
Understanding the procedures and 
techniques described here will help you 
present a persuasive, legally proper case 
whether you are a plaintiff (meaning that you 
have filed a lawsuit yourself) or a defendant 
(meaning that you have been sued). Illustrated 
with sample forms, pleadings, and courtroom 
dialogues, the book will take you through the 
litigation process step by step, from deciding 
whether you have a valid legal claim or 
defense to preparing an appeal if you lose.
If you had your druthers, you might prefer 
to turn your case over to a trial attorney 
(often called a “litigator”), who is trained to 
gather and present evidence in court. But in 
many common situations, it doesn’t make 
economic sense to hire a lawyer. Perhaps 
you find yourself in a situation like one of 
the following:
•Youinjuredyourbackwhenyou
slipped on loose carpeting in an office 
building you were visiting.
•Youownasmallmanufacturingbusiness
and have sued a supplier for delivering 
faulty raw material.
•Yourlandlordhassuedtoevictyou
from your apartment, and you claim 
that the eviction is unlawful.
•Youhaveledaclaimagainstyour
ex-spouse seeking increased child 
support.
•Youareabuildingcontractorwhohas
been sued by a homeowner for using 
building materials other than those 
specified in a remodeling contract, 
and you claim that the homeowner 
asked you to modify the contract after 
work was begun.
•Moneythatwaslefttoyouintrustby
your parents has been depleted by 
improper investments made by the 
trust company that controls the trust 
assets.
In any of these instances—and count less 
more—if you can’t resolve your dispute in a 
friendly way, you may have to go to court to 
protect your rights.
Unfortunately, with fees charged by 
lawyers commonly running in excess of $150 
an hour, it may not make economic sense—
or even be financially possible—for you to 
hire a lawyer. Even if you win and are able 
to collect what the other side owes you, the 
lawyer’s fees may devour much of your gain. 
As a result, representing yourself in court or 
dropping your claim or defense altogether 
may be your only realistic alternatives.
e Scope of is Book
This book explains rules and techniques for 
preparing and trying a civil case, including 
how to handle a case in family court or bank-
ruptcy court. It does not cover criminal cases. 
See “Civil and Criminal Cases,” below. You 
will learn how to figure out what evidence 
you need to present a legally solid case, 
whether you are a plaintiff or a defendant. 
Among other things, you will learn:
•howtopreparetheinitialpleadings
(usually called a “complaint” or 
an “answer”) that get a civil case 
underway (see Chapter 3)
•howtocomplywiththeimportant
“pre trial procedures” and activities 
that typically take place after the 
initial pleadings but before trial (see 
 Chap ter 4)
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•howtoinvestigateyourcaseand
gather evidence, using both informal 
methods and formal “discovery” (see 
Chapter 5)
•howtotrytosettleyourcasewithout
going to trial (see Chapter 6)
•howtoselectajuryifyouarein
volved in a jury trial (see Chapter 10)
•howtopresentyourowntestimony
and conduct direct examination of 
your witnesses and cross-examination 
of your adversary’s witnesses (see 
Chapters 12 and 13)
•howtoapplyrulesofevidencesothat
a judge will accept your admissible 
evidence and exclude your adversary’s 
improper evidence (see Chapter 16)
•howtolocate,hire,andeffectivelyuse
expert witnesses (see Chapter 19)
•howtopresentapersuasiveopening
statement and closing argument (see 
Chapters 11 and 14), and
•howtocomplywithcourtroom
procedural rules, such as where and 
when to sit and stand (see Chapter 
2), how to handle exhibits (tangible 
objects like photographs and receipts) 
(see Chapter 15), and how to address 
the judge and opposing counsel (see 
Chapters 2 and 17).
The book guides you, step by step, 
through every phase of a civil trial.
Unless you are in court regularly, you 
may not know how a case proceeds from 
initial filing through trial. Therefore, this 
book also provides you with background 
information about what you will see—and 
what you need to do—when you enter the 
courtroom where your case will be heard. 
Why Do People 
Represent emselves?
e National Center for State Courts 
conducted a study to find out why 
more and more people are representing 
themselves in court instead of hiring an 
attorney. e study found that those who 
represent themselves believe that:
• lawyers are too expensive
• courts and lawyers do not deliver 
quality services, and
• their cases are simple enough to 
handle themselves.
Analysts of civil court systems provide 
additional reasons for the growth in self-
representation, including:
• people want to be in control of their 
cases
• lawyers often lack good “bedside 
manners” and aren’t good at 
explaining to clients what is 
happening with their cases
• many people distrust lawyers, 
both because of negative personal 
experiences and because of the 
negative images of lawyers often 
portrayed on TV, in books, and in 
the movies, and
• legal assistance is available from 
other sources, such as the Internet, 
computer software, and paralegal or 
other legal document providers.
(Source: M. Tebo, “Self-Serve Legal Aid,” ABA 
Journal, August 2002.)
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You will learn where to file your court 
papers; how to subpoena witnesses (order 
witnesses to come to court and testify); the 
functions of a courthouse Clerk’s Office and 
a courtroom clerk; and the powers and duties 
of all the personnel who typically carry out 
courthouse business, including bailiffs, court 
 reporters, interpreters, attorneys, jurors, and 
judges.
Finally, the book devotes separate 
chapters to two types of specialized court 
proceedings. Chapter 21 provides information 
about hearings in divorce and related family 
law matters, such as spousal abuse, child 
custody, child support, and spousal support. 
Chapter 22 provides information for debtors 
and creditors about contested hearings that 
often occur in bankruptcy cases.
Family law and bankruptcy matters merit 
separate chapters for a number of reasons. 
Each involves specialized hearings that 
you don’t find in other types of civil cases. 
Also, judges usually decide these disputes 
alone, without juries. And litigants frequently 
Civil and Criminal Cases
is book covers only civil cases, which arise 
when private citizens (including corporations 
and other associations) sue each other. Criminal 
trials, by contrast, occur when a state or the 
federal government seeks to punish someone 
for violating a criminal law. e major differ-
ences are:
• e result. Civil cases typically end with 
money paid by one party to the other; 
criminal cases may result in fines paid to 
the government and imprisonment.
• e burden of proof. In most civil cases, 
a plaintiff wins by convincing a judge or 
jury by a “preponderance of evidence” 
that its claim is true. In criminal cases the 
prosecution must prove a defendant’s 
guilt “beyond a reasonable doubt.”
• e right to a jury trial. You are 
entitled to a jury in all criminal cases but 
not in all civil cases. For example, you are 
entitled to a jury trial in personal injury
 cases but not in child custody and 
spousal support cases. Also, most states 
require unanimous jury verdicts in 
criminal trials but agreement by only 
three-fourths of the jurors in a civil case.
• e right to counsel. Defendants facing 
criminal charges have the right to an 
appointed lawyer, at the government’s 
expense, in almost all cases. In civil 
cases, plaintiffs and defendants have to 
pay for their own lawyers or represent 
themselves.
We have written another book that can help 
if you or someone you know has been arrested or 
accused of a crime and is facing possible criminal 
charges. It’s called e Criminal Law Handbook: 
Know Your Rights, Survive the System (Nolo). 
While that handbook does not recommend 
self-representation in criminal cases, it can be a 
tremendous resource at a time you need solid, 
trustworthy information.
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represent themselves in both family law and 
bankruptcy cases. This is especially true 
in divorce court, where at least one of the 
parties is self-represented in 80% of cases.
Can You Really 
Represent Yourself?
Unless your case is unusually complex, 
you really can represent yourself. You may 
not have all the legal training of a lawyer, 
but you do not need to go to law school to 
have common sense, to learn how to ask 
intelligent questions, or to recognize what 
makes people and information believable. 
In the words of Oliver Wendell Holmes, one 
of the country’s most revered U.S. Supreme 
Court justices, “The life of the law has not 
been logic, it has been experience.” As these 
words suggest, your everyday life experience 
is the foundation of most of what you need 
to know to present a coherent, convincing 
case. Besides, as former Supreme Court Chief 
Justice Warren Burger was fond of pointing 
out, many lawyers are not such hotshots; 
they often come to court ill-prepared and 
lacking professional skills.
Nor do you need to be intimidated by the 
difficulty of the law or legal reasoning. Your 
trial will probably be concerned with facts, 
not abstract legal issues. For the most part, 
you can look up the law you need to know. 
(See Chapter 23 for information on how to 
do this.) Legal reasoning is not so different 
from everyday rational thinking. Forget the 
silly notion that you have to act or sound 
like an experienced lawyer to be successful 
in court. Both lawyers and nonlawyers with 
extremely varied personal styles can succeed 
in court. The advice to “be yourself” is as 
appropriate inside the courtroom as outside.
No matter how many times you read 
this book and how carefully you prepare, 
you will probably feel anxious when you 
represent yourself in court, especially if 
your opponent has a lawyer. Perhaps it will 
help you if you know that you aren’t alone. 
Many professionals feel anxiety—particularly 
before a first performance—whether they are 
lawyers about to begin a trial, teachers about 
to teach a class, or actors about to perform 
on stage. So take a deep breath and gather 
up your courage. As long as you combine 
your common sense with the principles and 
techniques described in this book, and are 
not afraid to ask a court clerk, a law librarian, 
an attorney, or even the judge for help if you 
become confused, you should be able to 
represent yourself competently and effectively.
To represent yourself successfully, 
especially if your adversary has a lawyer, 
you must be prepared to invest substantial 
amounts of time in your case —and particu-
larly in the many pretrial procedures and 
maneuvers that can mean the difference 
 between winning and losing. To non-
lawyers, the legal system seems to center 
on the outcomes of trials. After all, that’s the 
dramatic part—and the focus of so many 
movies and TV shows. If you believe these 
portrayals, you might think you just have to 
file a few papers, tell your story to a judge, 
and claim victory. (This was the belief of 
Vinny, who represents two defendants 
charged with murder in the wonderful court-
room comedy film, My Cousin Vinny. Vinny 
shows up for an arraignment and tries to 
explain to the judge that the police made a 
mistake. Vinny is shocked when the judge 
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advises him that he’s not going to set aside 
all of his state’s procedures just 
because 
Vinny finds himself “in the unique position of 
representing clients who say they didn’t do it.”)
For lawyers, in contrast, the legal system is 
an array of procedures that begin long before 
trial (and often continue long afterwards). 
In fact, few cases ever actually make it to 
trial. Instead, they settle out of court—or 
are dismissed—because of these pretrial 
procedures. Although individually justifiable, 
collectively these procedures create the 
potential for adversaries to engage in lengthy 
“paper wars” that you might find harrowing. 
Many lawyers are fair and reasonable and 
will not try to “paper you to death.” Never-
theless, you have to realize from the outset 
that representing yourself effectively is likely 
to require a substantial commitment of 
time—even if your case never goes to trial.
Coping With Being a 
Stranger in a Strange Land
Courts are public institutions belonging to the 
people, and you have the right to represent 
yourself there. However, courts are also 
bureaucratic institutions with very heavy case-
loads. Historically, filing clerks, courtroom 
clerks, court reporters, and even judges have 
usually preferred to deal with lawyers rather 
than with people who represent themselves. 
(When you represent yourself, you may find 
yourself referred to as a “pro per” or “pro 
se” litigant, Latin abbreviations favored by 
judges and lawyers.) Although the increasing 
number of people representing themselves is 
beginning to change these attitudes in some 
places, many court personnel believe (often 
mistakenly) that they can do their work more 
quickly and easily when they work with 
lawyers than when they work with people 
who are representing themselves.
So even if it seems highly unfair, do not 
be surprised if you encounter initial hostility 
from court personnel. In your eyes, you are 
an individual seeking justice and doing what 
you have a right to do. But to the people 
who work in courthouses every day, you 
may be perceived as someone who will 
make their jobs more difficult. Instead of 
helping you, they may even attempt to put 
obstacles in your path, hoping that you will 
get discouraged and go away.
Knowing ahead of time that you may 
encounter a hostile attitude is the best 
weapon against it. Read and study this 
book and other legal resources, many of 
which are available free online or in your 
local library. Learn how to prepare and 
present a persuasive case and follow the 
proper procedures for the Clerk’s Office 
and the courtroom. If you believe that court 
personnel at any level are being rude to you, 
be courteous and professional in return, even 
as you insist upon fair treatment. By knowing 
and following court rules and courtroom 
techniques, you can often earn the respect 
of the judge and the others who work in the 
courtroom. As a result, you may well find 
that they will go out of their way to help you.
Realize too that even those lawyers who 
are in their comfort zone in the court system 
often get yelled at and harassed by other 
lawyers, judges, and court personnel. For 
many lawyers, hassles like these go with the 
job, and they tend to develop a thick skin. 
To survive as a stranger in this strange land, 
your skin probably has to be even thicker.
CHAPTER 1|GOING IT ALONE IN COURT|7
e Changing Face of Civil Court
In the years since this book first appeared, the 
number of people representing them selves in 
civil court cases has continued to grow. A recent 
collection of statistics by the National Center for 
State Courts shows that the vast majority of family 
law cases involve at least one, and often two, self-
represented parties. In California, over 4.3 million 
people using the courts are self-represented; in 
New Hampshire, 85% of civil cases in the trial court 
involve at least one self-represented party. Many 
courts report an upsurge in self-representation. 
(Memorandum on Pro Se Statistics, 9/25/2006, 
National Center for State Courts, available at 
www.ncsconline.org/WC/publications/memos/
prosestatsmemo.htm.) Other research indicates 
that at least one party was self-represented in 
more than two-thirds of domestic relations cases 
in California and in nearly 90% of divorce cases in 
Phoenix, Arizona, and Washington, DC. (See Jona
Goldschmidt, et al., Meeting the Challenge 
of Pro Se Litigation: A Report and Guidebook 
for Judges and Court Managers, A Consumer 
Based Approach (1998).) ese studies are 
substantiated by many civil court administrators 
and judges, who estimate that the number of 
self-represented parties has increased by at least 
50% over the past five years.
Politicians and judges have started to respond 
to the growth in self-representation. For example, 
some courts have created fill-in-the-blanks 
court forms tailored to the types of documents 
a self- represented party is most likely to need. 
In other courts, “pro se advisors” are available 
in the courthouse to give free advice to people 
representing themselves. As a result, while you 
may still feel like a stranger in a strange land, 
you will not be alone—and the land won’t be as 
strange as it was just a few years ago.
Finding a Legal Coach
Even if it does not make economic sense 
for you to turn your entire case over to an 
attorney, you may want or need to seek 
occasional legal advice during the pro-
ceedings. A legal coach—someone you can 
turn to on an as-needed basis—might help 
you in a number of areas. For example, your 
legal coach might prepare documents, shorten 
the time you spend on legal research by 
suggesting helpful sources, suggest evidence 
that might help you establish a legal claim, 
advise you of filing deadlines, and inform you 
of rules and customs peculiar to your local 
courts (and, therefore, beyond the reach of 
this book). Throughout the book, we point 
out the specific stages of a lawsuit when it 
might be wise to seek help from a legal coach.
An experienced civil litigator (an attorney 
who primarily works on civil lawsuits) who 
is willing to work with you on a part-time 
basis is generally the best choice for a legal 
coach. However, you may have difficulty 
finding an attorney who will agree to such an 
arrangement. Traditionally, almost all litigators 
took cases on an all-or-nothing basis. That 
is, they assumed complete responsibility for 
a case or declined representation altogether. 
In part, litigators’ reluctance to help self-
represented parties is probably attributable 
to fears about violating lawyers’ ethical codes 
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or committing legal malpractice for giving 
advice based on incomplete knowledge. 
Reluctance also stems, at least to some extent, 
from professional bias; many attorneys believe 
that only lawyers are competent to deal with 
America’s courts.
Fortunately, many lawyers’ attitudes 
toward serving as a legal coach are changing. 
The American Bar Association’s Standing 
Committee on the Delivery of Legal Services 
has sponsored conferences on “unbundling,” 
which refers to providing legal advice and 
services on a piecemeal basis to consumers 
who are representing themselves. The 
benefits of unbundling are further promoted 
in the book Unbundling Legal Services, by 
attorney Forrest Mosten (ABA). (Consider 
asking an attorney of good will who is 
nevertheless hesitant to act as a legal coach 
to read that book!)
Many states allow attorneys to offer 
 unbundled services, sometimes referred to 
as “limited representation” or “limited scope 
representation.” A lawyer’s services may 
include providing advice, preparing docu-
ments, and even making court appearances. 
(For example, an ethics opinion issued by 
the New York County Lawyers Association 
states that Rule 1.2 of New York’s Rules of 
Professional Conduct allows lawyers to pre-
pare court documents for pro se litigants 
without disclosing their involvement to courts 
or to adversaries. Rule 1.2 recognizes that 
lawyers can undertake limited scope repre-
sentation.)
The scope of the lawyer’s services should 
be clearly explained in a written agree-
ment. Limited scope representation should 
also be reasonable under the circumstances. 
For example, lawyers should be reluctant to 
serve as a legal coach when legal issues are 
very complex or a client has a serious dis-
ability or has suffered horrific injuries.
Some lawyers may not be familiar with 
the term “legal coach.” When you are looking 
for a legal coach, explain to the attorneys 
you interview that you are looking for 
coaching or limited scope representation, or 
ask them whether they’re willing to do the 
specific tasks you need, such as reviewing 
documents or helping you prepare for a 
court hearing or trial.
You may also be able to hire someone 
other than a lawyer to be your legal coach. 
Some states now allow licensed paralegals 
(attorney assistants) to perform some tasks 
that formerly were the exclusive domain 
of lawyers. For instance, in California and 
Florida, paralegals are allowed to prepare 
many types of documents for self-represented 
parties to file. If you are considering hiring a 
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Be Cautious When Getting Advice From Nonlawyers or the Internet
When lawyers provide substandard represen-
tation, dissatisfied clients can get help from 
state disciplinary authorities and file legal 
malpractice claims in court. By contrast, while 
it may be cheaper and easier to get help from 
a nonlawyer, the services they can provide are 
limited—and it may be much more difficult to 
seek redress for their mistakes. For example, 
paralegals or websites may help you prepare a 
document, but they can’t give you legal advice 
as to whether that document is best suited to 
your situation. Also, you are ultimately respon-
sible if a document provider fills out a form 
incorrectly; a clerk or judge is unlikely to correct 
any mistakes.
And, of course, charlatans may be waiting to 
take advantage of you. An article in the August 
2002 issue of the ABA Journal describes one such 
ploy: A nonlawyer who provides legal assistance 
may promise a self-represented party, “I can go
to court with you.” However, the party may 
understand this to mean that the nonlawyer can 
provide repre sentation in court, which of course 
the nonlawyer cannot do. (M. Tebo, “Self-
Service Legal Aid.”)
Finally, be aware that the concept of legal 
advice on the Internet is still new. Shakeouts 
in the industry are likely; some websites may 
disappear only to be replaced by others. Also, 
remember that the risk of inaccuracy and 
miscommunication may be greater when you 
communicate over the Internet than when you 
seek legal assistance face to face.
For all these reasons, you should always be 
a cautious consumer when seeking assistance 
from nonlawyers. Seek references and ask about 
the nonlawyer’s background, training, and 
experience. Just as important, do some research 
yourself so that you have a basis for evaluating 
the nonlawyer’s work. 
•www.lawguru.com
•www.AllLaw.com
•www.legalzoom.com
•www.ndlaw.com,and
•www.courtinfo.ca.gov/self.help
(prepared by the California Judicial 
Council. This website has extensive 
articles and information on unbundling).
Before consulting a legal coach, read 
through this book and your local court rules. 
(Court rules are discussed and explained in 
the next section of this chapter.) You may find 
answers to questions that you would other-
wise pay a legal coach to answer. (For more 
detailed advice about hiring and working with 
an attorney as a legal coach, see Chapter 23.)
legal coach, therefore, check to see whether 
paralegals are available in your area and 
what services they are allowed to provide. 
(We the People is the name of one business 
that provides paralegal services directly to 
consumers in some states.)
Legal websites may provide another 
source of legal coaching. While websites such 
as www.nolo.com offer loads of high-quality 
legal information and tools to create many 
simple forms, very few Internet companies 
provide case-specific legal advice and compre-
hensive document preparation services to 
people who represent them selves. Here are a 
few websites that may be able to provide legal 
information, form preparation, or advice: